kids can be resilient sometimes. you can yell at them and yet they still love you as though nothing happened and i think they do this because they know that no matter how mad or angry we get with them that we still love them. even people who abuse their kids and lose them almost always say that they still love their child and wish they could of done otherwise but i think that at the time of abuse they think otherwise they think back on their childhood and their parents rage and then it comes back to them and they think that they need to do this to their kids. but once it's all said and done they know its wrong and want to take it all back within a few seconds of their child being taken from them.